Even at age 4 she was into looking "elegant". This is a really simple bun that gives that "wow" effect.
Start with wet hair and pull it all up into a high ponytail. Now divide the ponytail into 6 even pieces. Comb each piece straight up in the air and then roll it down - over itself - into the head. Secure it into place with bobby pins.
Do that for ever piece and then you can place a ribbon around the bun or flowers in it like we've done here. These are little spiral clips that we just twisted into the top of the bun.